Well, I'm starting to get Old! And I need to redo my horrible skin routine.

My skin feels dry, pores feel large and irritated (especially around the cheeks) but I'm still not 100% raw. I've heard that you shouldn't wash your face too many times because you can easily damage the skin, fat and oil glands especially on your cheeks. Anyways I've been through Jojoba Oil (too heavy), Emu Oil, Olive Oil and a few others and they only one that's close to okay is Coconut Oil. The only problem is the climate I live in can be very harsh during the seasons and Coconut Oil works best in a humid climate. Is there any Oils or fruit/veg (that's not a pain) to apply that's just as light but a little more moisturizing? What about using something to spray on and seal the oil?? I currently use liquid witch hazel right before the moisturizer.

I'm also concerned about over moisturizing my eyes because the skin is different underneath them. Does anyone use something different for the eye area?